Monday, July 10, 2017

4th of July!

The Littlest Gang.




Sully's nap spot at the lake.

So much fun with buddies.

It wouldn't be patriots day without a drone.  Right?

Blowing bubbles through a straw... and drinking some lake water in the process.

...someone stole Asher's swim suit after his nap...

Quite possibly the cutest pregnant lady ever...

Tubing in the boat parade... with a flag.

Mini Donkeys. That's all.

Sometimes you just need a crown of flowers and mini donkeys to get regrounded.
Mankato is my happy place.


Ash bossing Grandpa around with landscaping work.  
He carried the flowers (of course) and would look at Dad and say, "Dig".


...and then we went to a magical farm...

In love.  So in love.  Mini donkeys are a thing.


Couldn't care less about alpacas and mini donkeys... can we do a maternity test on this one?

This one on the other hand, is definitely mine.


...want...to boop...those ears....

George the alpaca whisperer.



So many Ferdinands...






Monday, July 3, 2017

Backyard Fun.

Banana Boats- a proud Olson camping tradition.  
Asher thinks banana boats are the greatest invention ever.  But I'm pretty sure it is more about getting to decorate than it is about eating the actual banana.


The world's cutest campers.

Ash & I ended up sleeping in the tent overnight.  When your kids go to sleep at 7:00, camping is tough (the sun sets at 9).  He literally fell asleep mid-sentence while yelling, "I'm going to stay up ALL NIGHT!".

Picnic dinners.  It's okay to just spray your kids down with a hose when you eat outside, right?


Poor Sully

It was all fun and games at the doctor's office until we found out Sullivan has a double ear infection, maybe a perforated ear drum, and will likely have to have surgery again.

Keeping busy making funny faces while we wait.


...and then our energy went away and we started to feel really yucky...

....then rallied long enough to try to block the door to keep the doctor from coming in.

I talked to his surgeon at Children's today and we have an appointment scheduled for when he has completed his antibiotics.  She will take a look at the tubes and we will make a decision about surgery then.  Until then, he gets all the popsicles and a ridiculous amount of cuddling.

Sunday, July 2, 2017

Because sometimes you just have to email the CEO of Blue Cross Blue Shield.

Children's and BCBS are in the final days of their fee schedule negotiations, and if they aren't able to come to an agreement, it is predicted that 70,000 kids insured through BCBS will no longer be able to receive care in-network at Children's.  Including Sully.   Who needs a third surgery that I would very much like done by the same doctor who did his first two procedures (bummer note: we found out yesterday that his tubes have come out and he has a double ear infection).  So I am upset.  But ultimately, this isn't about us.

Blue Cross Blue Shield has demanded that Children's accept a 31% cut to rates they receive for kids insured through Medicaid as part of a strategy to cover losses incurred in the individual market and PMAP population.   Children's argues this isn't sustainable, and that it will affect their ability to provide high quality care to kids (last year they had over half a million patient visits).   Fee schedules... reimbursement rates... contracts... blah blah blah.   I don't like it when big kids can't play nice and it affects little kids.  I especially don't like it when Children's gives BCBS a list of 6,000 patients they have identified as having complex care needs that can't be adequately met anywhere other than at their hospital without having to put the family through extreme hardship, and BCBS drags their feet on deciding if they will let those families remain in network.  Sure, sometimes negotiating means playing chicken.  And sometimes the consequence of that is that parents of really sick kids are currently suffering as they wonder what the hell they are going to do for healthcare for their babies after Wednesday.  I swear to god, this stuff makes me so mad I could hit someone.  And I am rarely moved to violence.   So.  What to do?

Children's provided parents with an email template to automatically send to the BCBSMN CEO after adding a signature, this was the email:

"Dear Mr. Guyette,

Children’s Minnesota is vital to the healthcare of kids in Minnesota. I believe that Blue Cross and Blue Shield of Minnesota is being unreasonable with its demands, and should change its position to make sure a deal is reached.

I’m asking that you put children first, so kids in Minnesota can maintain their in-network access to care at Children’s.

Sincerely,
XXXX "

A great email.  And of course he isn't reading them, the point is just to inundate his inbox.  But I decided to send my own email:


"Dear Mr. Guyette,

When he was 12 months old, my son stopped breathing in my arms.  Luckily I was at Children’s Hospital-St. Paul emergency department, and they saved his life.  See, I didn’t know what anaphylaxis in a 1 year old looked like, but the nurse working at the front desk did.  We didn’t even sit down before she started walking us back to a procedure room, and when he lost consciousness and his lips turned blue and I yelled to her, “He isn’t breathing!”, she didn’t break her stride as she put a hand on my arm and said, evenly, “I know he isn’t”.  She led us into a suite full of physicians, nurses, and respiratory therapists who immediately, effectively, expertly, did everything he needed to survive.   

Sullivan has also had two surgeries at Children’s with the same physician since September of last year, and we found out on July 1st that he will need yet another one.   If your negotiations fail, we will ultimately need to have the 3rd procedure done at a different hospital, with a new care team, and that is stressful and scary as a parent.   I know that the alternatives BCBS is recommending are good hospitals, and that my child will receive good care.  But I don’t have a relationship with them.  I don’t trust them in the same way.  I haven’t watched them as they saved my baby’s life. 

I share these stories about Sullivan because healthcare for children should not be transactional and hearing the illness narratives of families should remind you of that.  But I am not appealing on behalf of my family.  I am writing on behalf of the 6,000 kids that Children’s has identified as needing to stay in-network to not experience a catastrophic disruption in their care.  I’m appealing on behalf of the families who Blue Cross has referred to Milwaukee and Sioux Falls (in the absence of access to Children’s).  My family lived in Albuquerque for three years and my son needed specialty care that could not be provided in New Mexico.  We have lived through the nightmare of having to leave the state to get healthcare for our child.  Having a sick child is a traumatic experience.   Having to leave home to care for your child only compounds that trauma. 

If negotiations fail for the other 60,000+ plus kids, including my child, I hope that you will do everything you can to make sure those 6,000 families stay in-network.  Regardless of their PMAP status.  Regardless of your bottom line. 

Sincerely,

Blair Olson"


We will see what they decide on July 5th.